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How to Become a Family Lawyer

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Are you thinking of becoming a family lawyer? We take you through what qualifications and training you need and what to expect from the many different roles and areas of family law expertise.

A career in family law is a challenging and stimulating field. Your personal involvement with clients and the ability to provide legal guidance to those who are in distress can be immensely rewarding. A family lawyer will provide legal advice for family and relationship issues. Family law relates to very personal and sensitive areas of a client’s life so for this reason it can be one of the most emotive areas of law.

Family law is also remarkably diverse so although you will read about core topics (such as children, marriage and divorce) studying family law makes for many varied areas of learning.

These include:
Divorce and relationship breakdown
Financial disputes relating to marriage, civil partnership divorce or relationship breakdown, provision for children, division of personal assets and business assets
Issues concerning children including parental disputes, grandparents’ legal rights, step-parent adoption, surrogacy law, and child abduction
Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements
Civil Partnerships
International family law


It is crucial that you have the right temperament for family law due to the nature of dealing with children and adults in distressing situations. The following soft skills make the difference between an adequate candidate and an ideal candidate:

  • People skills and communication skills — you are dealing with clients who are facing very difficult times, so you need to be a good listener to hear what is and isn’t spoken.
  • Social skills — along with a sharp legal mind you also need social skills like tact, empathy and compassion and an appreciation for the many different sides of human nature.
  • Professionalism and objectivity — the ability to detach yourself on a personal level (from children and adults in distressing situations, such as abuse cases) while still acknowledging the difficulties the client is facing.
  • Hard work ethic and positive attitude
  • Patience and ability to stay calm — with clients, opposing counsel, court personnel, the system and emotional outbursts.
  • Resilience and confidence


Most people specialise in family law because they are deeply interested in the human aspect of law and how the law can help people at some of the most vulnerable periods of their lives, including family issues and relationship breakdown.

A good family lawyer can demonstrate empathy and inspire confidence that they will guide clients through this very difficult period, always remaining focused, but also ensuring they give the best possible legal and strategic advice.

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There are now many different routes to qualification as a lawyer which require different levels of educational qualifications. All will require GCSE and A-Level qualifications (or equivalent qualifications).

Some law firms offer Legal Apprenticeships to students who have finished their A-Levels but not yet completed a degree which include a combination of studying and experience leading to qualification as a lawyer in around 6 years. There is also the option to qualify as a Chartered Legal Executive lawyer which also involves both studying and practical experience over a period of a minimum of 5 years.

The SQE route (see below) requires an undergraduate level degree and then further professional qualifications and practical training following that. The degree can be in any subject; it does not have to be a Law degree.


Solicitors Qualification Examinations

The SQE route was implemented by the Solicitors Regulation Authority in September 2021. It requires the following:

  1. A degree in any subject;
  2. Two years of full time qualifying work experience;
  3. Passing both stages of the new Solicitors Qualifications Examinations; and
  4. Passing the SRA’s character and suitability requirements.

This route takes a minimum of 5 years, but is likely to take 6 years following completion of A-Levels, potentially 7 years (depending on the degree undertaken).

You should look carefully at the courses offered for your undergraduate degree to determine the extent the course they are offering will prepare you for the SQE. This may highlight the advantage of undertaking a law degree to maximise your chances of passing the SQE (as opposed to undertaking an entirely unrelated undergraduate degree).

In addition there are SQE preparation courses that can be undertaken in order help prepare candidates.

The preparatory courses are not a mandatory requirement.  The SRA’s view is that your education and training in the qualifying work experience will provide you with the knowledge and skills you need to pass the assessments.

However, preparation courses are still available (and in effect replace the courses under the previous route). These may assist you in passing the SQE Assessments.

Here are some links that may be useful in helping that decision making process:

This route removes the GDL, LPC and PSC courses which were requirements of the old route to qualification. Instead, it introduces two standard examinations known as the Solicitors Qualifying Examinations (SQE’s) which need to be passed. They are divided into two stages and candidates must pass stage 1 to be able to move on to stage 2.

Stage 1

Stage 1 assesses functioning legal knowledge as well as ethics and professional conduct. It consists of 2 examination papers both containing 180 multiple choice questions and each is 5 hours long. The assessment is closed book (meaning candidates cannot take any notes, books or study materials into the exams).

Stage 2

Stage 2 tests the professional skills required in practice such as client interviews, advocacy, case analysis, legal research and drafting. These areas are assessed over 5 half days as follows; written exams over 3 half days and oral exams over 2 half days. This stage involves 14 hours of exams in total.

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Qualifying work experience

The qualifying work experience aspect is much more flexible under the SQE route. It still requires 2 years of full time work but the experience can now be gained with up to 4 different employers across the 2 years. The work can be paid or unpaid and can include paralegal experience, time spent advising in a student law clinic, volunteering at a law centre or Citizens Advice Bureau or any placements undertaken during a degree.

There is also still the option to complete 2 years with just one employer in the traditional way.

It is important to note that law firms are still able to determine how they wish to offer training and how to accept any previous experience. It is thought that many firms will initially still require candidates to complete a 2 year period of qualifying work with the firm to qualify there.

All qualifying work experience will need to be signed off by a solicitor who will review the work and provide feedback. The SRA is giving more autonomy to employers in respect of the training but provide that the experience must offer a candidate the opportunity to develop the competencies and skills required in practice.


Yes, work experience will always help your progress.  Having general work experience in a professional environment where you are dealing with other colleagues, customers and clients, is always valuable.

Specific options to consider are:

  • Formal work experience at a firm that specialises in family law – this is invaluable
  • Completing a vacation scheme
  • Completing a mini pupillage that allows you to shadow a barrister working on a family law case
  • Marshalling (shadowing) a judge that is sitting on a family law case
  • Entering/winning prizes in family law essay competitions at university, showing your interest in the field
  • Taking part in family pro bono work in legal clinics

Family Lawyer Salary In The UK

The average salary for a Family Lawyer is £41,796 per year in the UK according to data on Indeed, though this will vary depending on location and the firm you work for.

Salaries for newly-qualified lawyers across all disciplines vary across the UK and can be in the region of £26,000 to £55,000, with London City firms paying the highest salaries on average.

Employees in the law sector enjoy some of the highest salaries in the UK, with many firms offering generous pay and bonuses, whatever specialism you choose.

Although a career in law is likely to be well paid, the practice of law is to serve others. The career satisfaction you will experience, knowing you have played a crucial role at a vulnerable and critical time in a client’s life —  such as seeing a parent and child reunited — is fundamental to your work. There are also intellectual rewards — the constant learning and diversity keeps your work interesting.

Those who seek to make a difference in the lives of individuals will find family law practice to be a rewarding career path.

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