Welcome to the latest episode in our Family Law Unpacked podcast series; ‘What is Domestic Abuse?’ In this episode, Lehna Gardiner, Peter Dodd and Tula Fitzpatrick cover a wide spectrum of issues surrounding the sensitive topic of domestic abuse.
We begin by discussing the fact that domestic abuse can take many different forms and does not have to involve physical violence. Other abusive behaviours include coercive control, financial abuse, controlling behaviour, gaslighting and other patterns that may leave somebody frightened, isolated or dependent on their partner. We look at the early behaviours that might indicate that a relationship is becoming controlling or unhealthy, and how controlling behaviour can develop gradually without the person experiencing it necessarily recognising what is happening.
We move on to talk about the support that is available to victims of domestic abuse, explaining the types of professional and legal help available and the importance of taking a safety-first approach if somebody is considering leaving an abusive relationship. We explore the different orders and protections that may be available and talk about the importance of navigating the process with support networks in place. Legal advice is one part of a wider support network that may also include specialist domestic abuse organisations, healthcare professionals, police and trusted friends or family.
We focus on the importance of getting help rather than trying to manage the situation alone, and hope that by the end the episode listeners who are experiencing these issues feel empowered to seek help and support.
You can watch the episode on our YouTube channel here or listen on Spotify here.
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